Comments for Exploiting My Baby : A Blog by Teresa Strasser

Comment on I’m Past That Now by Tara

Tara — Thu, 17 May 2012 20:09:15 +0000

Another great essay! I, like CJ, never feared that I would feel about mothering, like my mother did, but I still relate to you in having some fears about my childhood issues “tagging” me–or, more to the heart of my worry–my daughter. I feared she would feel about me the way I felt about my mother. In the midst of her adolescence now, it seems we’re just as close as ever, and I need not worry. The past doesn’t have to repeat in the present. Enjoy!

Comment on I’m Past That Now by Kusandra

Kusandra — Thu, 17 May 2012 17:51:54 +0000

“I love you already, I think, as I rub my hand over my stomach.” Brought a tear to my eye for you and for the joy of caring for and loving children. Good job, T!

PS. Maybe the “spirited” boy has sensory integration issues. My “spirited” boy does and I stayed home with him for six months, then had family member care for him when I went back to work part time. Daycare or other choices you made had nothing to do with his issues. I am sure. My mother gave this advice when I was pregnant and reminded me of it recently, every baby is different and the baby comes with the recipe. Believe me, my mother wasn’t a “natural” mother either. However, this is a good way to look at parenting.

Comment on I’m Past That Now by CJ

CJ — Thu, 17 May 2012 15:01:51 +0000

I never feared I would make the same mistakes or suck like my own mother did. But I did have to let go of the past so I could give ALL of me, the BEST of me, to my kids. I haven’t spoken to my own parents in approximately 6 years. I don’t want to miss out on my adult-children’s lives. I don’t want to never know my grandchildren…and so, I’m the best damn mom I can be….and my children reap the benefits of my childhood detriments.

Comment on I’m Past That Now by It Is What It Is

It Is What It Is — Wed, 16 May 2012 21:32:15 +0000

Reconciling one’s past to one’s present is freeing. Glad you are free.

Comment on I’m Past That Now by JD

JD — Wed, 16 May 2012 20:47:01 +0000

Wow. Thanks T.

Comment on I’m Past That Now by Jeanette

Jeanette — Wed, 16 May 2012 20:01:12 +0000

Just beautiful, Teresa. I became farklempt! So enjoy your writing. Thank you.

Comment on When an Audition Makes you Feel Like Coco From “Fame” by Teresa Strasser

Teresa Strasser — Wed, 16 May 2012 18:23:16 +0000

So true.

Comment on When an Audition Makes you Feel Like Coco From “Fame” by Kelly

Kelly — Sat, 12 May 2012 20:09:47 +0000

The sunk cost effect seems to have gotten its grip on both you and Coco.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sunk_costs

Comment on Pregnant Again: It’s A Do Over by Sarah

Sarah — Fri, 11 May 2012 01:11:03 +0000

I feel the exact same way. I’m 24 weeks pregnant (and have an almost 14 month old). I was completely self-absorbed during my first pregnancy and this time around I feel the little fetus isn’t getting any attention. I also feel like we will be constantly comparing the second to the first once it’s here.

On another note, congratulations! I can’t wait to hear about your new adventures.

Comment on Pregnant Again: It’s A Do Over by Mandy

Mandy — Wed, 09 May 2012 08:19:38 +0000

Teresa, I’m 19 weeks along with my first baby and just finished reading your book and loving it. I am SO excited to hear that you’re doing it again! Truly happy for you, and wishing I could get a little more of the humor and realism that you brought to The Parent Experiment once upon a time. Yes, I listened while childless! Maybe I will have to check back in on Adam’s show when you have your weekly segment. Congratulations!